Stefism # 28
4-year-old: "Mom, I've never even seen a real mermaid!"
Me: "That's because mermaids aren't real. They're just pretend."
4-year-old: "WHAT???!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME???!!!"
My daughter was flabbergasted and heart-broken all at once and I found myself wanting to take back what I had said. Why did I speak before thinking? Because I actually love how the line between reality and make-believe is so blurred for kids. Pooh-pooh on me for squashing that line. Looking back, a much better response would have been, “Gosh golly, neither have I!” Then we could have gone mermaid hunting.